Sad Moments

I have to admit, I still get sad.

My intention with this website was to encourage parents by being positive, uplifting and informative.  As well, I want to promote understanding and acceptance of people who have Autism.

But to all of you parents out there whose children live with Autism:  I still get sad.

When my son was first diagnosed with Autism, I was emotionally devastated.  I couldn’t talk about it without bursting into tears.  I avoided seeing people and I was very depressed.  As time went on, our family slowly adjusted to our “new normal.”  Now, most days:  it is what it is, as I try to remain positive and hopeful for my son’s future.  My son is an amazing person.  I’m extremely proud of him and what he has accomplished so far in life.  I know he will accomplish so much more in the future because he works very hard.

But every once in a while, I get really, really sad.  I cry for the loss of what could have been.  I worry and stress about his future.  I am exhausted from organizing therapy, academic tutors and advocating for services.

Then I pick myself up, get back out there and feel hopeful again.  I wanted to share this with you so you know that you are not alone in the Autism maze.

The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) estimates that 1 in 68 children have Autism Spectrum Disorder.  There are many of us now.  I feel we need to be there for each other, even if we never meet face to face.  I often think of other Autism parents and send strength and courage and I invite you to do the same.  The great thing is by empathetically sending wishes to other parents and families, I often feel better myself because even after all these years, I am reminded that I AM NOT ALONE.  Sometimes that’s all I need to move forward.

Remember – YOU ARE NOT ALONE AND NEVER GIVE UP.

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